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DTSTAMP:20260605T182640Z
DTSTART;TZID=Australia/Melbourne:20220818T161500
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SUMMARY:I want you to want me
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TZID:Australia/Melbourne
LOCATION:The University of Melbourne\, Parkville\, Australia\, 3052
DESCRIPTION:<p>Abstract: Consider the world that includes: dating\, breakups\, crushes and jealousy\; the magnetic pull of attraction&nbsp\;to&nbsp\;someone who&nbsp\;you&nbsp\;know might not be good for&nbsp\;you\; the devastation of being rejected by them\; falling in love\; the distinctive experiences of &ldquo\;romance&rdquo\;&mdash\;romantic evenings\, romantic gestures\, the deadening feeling of knowing that the romance is gone.&nbsp\;&nbsp\;I&nbsp\;argue that what unifies all these phenomena is a paradox about reciprocal wanting: if&nbsp\;I&nbsp\;want&nbsp\;you&nbsp\;to&nbsp\;want&nbsp\;me\, and&nbsp\;you&nbsp\;want&nbsp\;me&nbsp\;to&nbsp\;want&nbsp\;you\, it does not follow that we&nbsp\;want&nbsp\;each other.&nbsp\; Grappling with the reciprocity paradox is what makes an ecounter\, or relationship\, or mental state\,&nbsp\;<em>erotic</em>. &nbsp\;&nbsp\;I&nbsp\;explain why sex is erotic.&nbsp\;</p>
ORGANIZER;CN=Francois Schroeter:
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